Today I want to take the opportunity to really connect with you. If you’re experiencing a lack of intimacy in your marriage, then this is the post for you.
For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Mel and I’m a certified life coach who specializes in helping ladies find their wild side. And believe me… I’ve been there (as you’ve read in some of my other posts).
The #1 quality of a life coach is curiosity, followed closely by compassion. As I’ve gotten more and more curious about intimacy, I’ve noticed a few things that come up over and over - and yet no one seems to want to talk about them openly.
Ladies who feel a lack of intimacy in their marriage often say that:
They feel a loss of connection with their spouse
They fear that they wouldn’t be accepted if they said what they really wanted
Feel sad when they think about their sex life
They don’t feel desirable or they hate their body
They feel lonely even though their spouse is right there in bed with them
The sad part is the amount of secrecy, shame, and guilt they experience! I hope that now you realize that you aren’t alone. What you’re feeling is completely normal when there’s a lack of intimacy.
Come on over to my Facebook group and share your experience. There’s no reason to go through this alone. We’re all there to support each other.