You're Not Alone


Today I want to take the opportunity to really connect with you. If you’re experiencing a lack of intimacy in your marriage, then this is the post for you.

For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Mel and I’m a certified life coach who specializes in helping ladies find their wild side. And believe me… I’ve been there (as you’ve read in some of my other posts).

The #1 quality of a life coach is curiosity, followed closely by compassion. As I’ve gotten more and more curious about intimacy, I’ve noticed a few things that come up over and over - and yet no one seems to want to talk about them openly.

Ladies who feel a lack of intimacy in their marriage often say that:

  • They feel a loss of connection with their spouse

  • They fear that they wouldn’t be accepted if they said what they really wanted

  • Feel sad when they think about their sex life

  • They don’t feel desirable or they hate their body

  • They feel lonely even though their spouse is right there in bed with them

The sad part is the amount of secrecy, shame, and guilt they experience! I hope that now you realize that you aren’t alone. What you’re feeling is completely normal when there’s a lack of intimacy.

Come on over to my Facebook group and share your experience. There’s no reason to go through this alone. We’re all there to support each other.


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