Breakups can be amazing, freeing, traumatic, dramatic, or all of the above. It all depends on how you deal with it. Wallowing in sadness and maybe regret tend to be the default for a lot of people. What did I do wrong? What could I have done better so that they would have stayed? Why did they make me so angry that I lashed out? So on and so on. Staying in that circle of what-ifs is just that, a circle. It starts with "what could have been different?" which leads to "how would