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3 min

Re-Introduction

Alright, here we go again with the introductions. I want to take this time to REALLY introduce myself. I'm not trying to be all professio...

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Mel the Coach

3 min

The Why Behind Stress

Why do we feel stress? Why does it sometimes feel minor and other times earth shattering? Why does it feel like personal attacks? Stress h

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3 Ways we Block OURSELVES in Relationships

Mel the Coach

4 min

3 Ways we Block OURSELVES in Relationships

This sounds like one of those things that we would know if we did it. We would know if we were tearing down our partner verbally. Here's

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Mel the Coach

8 min

Better Sex is a By-Product

Today, I want to talk about how great sex or better sex is just a byproduct. So when people start looking at their romantic lives or their i

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Mel the Coach

2 min

Relationship Rules of Engagement

Negotiated rules can stop A LOT of arguments from even happening. Even laying out, how I typically react, is some great information. These R

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Mel the Coach

3 min

Limits

Specifically, I'm talking about the bedroom. Some people think that their vanilla way about doing things is the only way that there is,

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2 min

Be Curious

Weren't the beginning months of dating just awesome? We were so curious about each other. We wanted to know what the other person was up ...

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Mel the Coach

3 min

Create a Shared Journal

I would write in it, he would read it sometime later that day and after he's had time to digest the information, we would have a discuss

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3 Things that everyone tries to seem more uninhibited

Mel the Coach

2 min

3 Things that everyone tries to seem more uninhibited

Here’s the thing that everyone needs to work on: gaining validation FROM WITHIN. Way easier said than done, yes it is. Trust me though, it w

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Mel the Coach

2 min

4 Actionable Ways To Love Yourself

In this post, we are going to cover 4 actionable (and totally doable) tips that you can use to love yourself a bit more and be comfortable w

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Mel the Coach

1 min

You're Not Alone

The #1 quality of a life coach is curiosity, followed closely by compassion. As I’ve gotten more and more curious about intimacy, I’ve notic

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Mel the Coach

2 min

Meta-Talks

This week I have counted down 5 things that alternative lifestyle relationships do that should be a part of every romantic relationship. Wel

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Mel the Coach

2 min

Discussing Power Dynamics

This week I will be counting down 5 things that alternative lifestyle relationships do that should be a part of every romantic relationship.

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Mel the Coach

3 min

Exploration of Self and Each Other

This week I will be counting down 5 things that alternative lifestyle relationships do that should be a part of every romantic relationship.

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Mel the Coach

2 min

Discussing Limits

This week I will be counting down 5 things that alternative lifestyle relationships do that should be a part of every romantic relationship.

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Mel the Coach

2 min

Setting Aside Playtime

This week I will be counting down 5 things that alternative lifestyle relationships do that should be a part of every romantic relationship.

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Mel the Coach

2 min

The Point of Marriage

Here's a scenario: you're walking through a forest. It's just non-stop walking. The sun can blind you at times. The wind can be

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Mel the Coach

1 min

Dealing with a Breakup

Breakups can be amazing, freeing, traumatic, dramatic, or all of the above. It all depends on how you deal with it. Wallowing in sadness ...

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Mel the Coach

2 min

Soul Searching and Breakups

After a breakup is typically a time of tears, tissues, ice cream, and booze. It's a time when we go and change ourselves physically (new ...

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Mel the Coach

2 min

Acknowledgment and Validation

Acknowledgment is very important. It’s the difference between a full rage argument or a civilized conversation. It can be acknowledgment ...

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