About Me

Melissa Absher, CPC / ELI-MP

I'm Mel and I'm a Sexuality Awakening Coach!!! It feels amazing to say that out loud *ahem typing ahem*. Being able to say it without shame or without the nervous sweats or blushing shy cheeks. I am a Sex Coach and I enjoy talking about relationships and sex!

I was one of those people that my friends always came to to ask sex type questions. I was that friend in my group so I was teaching everyone else what I learned and did. I feel like at least 1/3 of my conversations with my friends growing up were about relationships and sex. As I got older and started working and had a family, that never stopped. The questions just got more soul touching and less mechanical.


Those conversations that I had with friends were always my favorite thing about working/being anywhere. Yes, I liked the jobs that I had before but I got bored with them after a while and the politics of any company just suuuuuuuuucks. It was those moments when I got to connect with someone on a personal level that kept me going back to work. And eventually, it's what led me to find coaching and start my own practice.


Real quick life story... as a younger kid/teen, I was fascinated with the woo-woo stuff. I was a rock collector, I enjoyed mythology, and had a tarot deck. I dabbled a little bit but wasn't ready for what that all was about. Fast forward a few years and I went into the military. Apparently the Universe wanted me to learn some damn discipline because I can sure tell you, I had some discipline but no where near the shear amount that I needed for regular life. Now that I'm out of the military and have myself established as an adult, I find myself getting back into rock collecting (more like healing crystals), diving into alien theory, and deep diving into tarot. Come to find out, all of the crystals that I already had were exactly the crystals that I needed to help heal the issues I was going through.


All of that aside, I finally have my discipline and my mental self ready to help other people. I am a graduate of iPEC and am currently working on certification through Sex Coach University. I currently work with women in committed relationships and want to unleash their sexuality. I help women get comfortable in their own skin, both metaphorically and physically. I help women bring their own pleasure to the forefront of their mind and adult playtime. I provide women with the knowledge, skills, and tools to design the marriage of their dreams.